{"id":11101,"date":"2014-08-28T14:12:13","date_gmt":"2014-08-28T20:12:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/atalantarising.surly.org\/?p=11101"},"modified":"2014-08-28T14:40:15","modified_gmt":"2014-08-28T20:40:15","slug":"polite-to-a-fault","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/atalantarising.surly.org\/?p=11101","title":{"rendered":"Polite to a Fault"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Things that took<br \/>\nforever and a day to learn:<\/p>\n<p>Politeness is a lost social art.<br \/>\nPeople don&#8217;t always understand it<br \/>\nand confuse it for weakness.<br \/>\nBe polite anyway &#8211;that is strength.<\/p>\n<p>But, sometimes excessive politeness<br \/>\nis really just seeking permission to succeed,<br \/>\nor worse, permission to exist &#8212;<em>that <\/em>is weakness.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/60141310@N00\/14798528697\/\" title=\"Untitled by banjobear, on Flickr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/farm4.staticflickr.com\/3924\/14798528697_4c7982a1dc.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" alt=\"Untitled\"><\/a><br \/>\nQuote by <a href=\"http:\/\/instagram.com\/margaretelaineg\">Margaret Graham<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You exist whether anyone likes it or not, and<br \/>\nyou get to define success, for <em>you<\/em>. <\/p>\n<p>The only one that can grant or deny you<br \/>\nthe permission to pursue and enjoy success&#8230;<br \/>\nis<em> you<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>When politeness becomes a prison,<br \/>\nit&#8217;s time to take the offensive.<br \/>\nFar worse then offending is living<br \/>\ntrapped in your polite, timid prison.<\/p>\n<p>And maybe&#8230; just maybe your words<br \/>\nare the difference that was needed all along.<br \/>\nThe sharp, quick slap-in-the-face that wakes<br \/>\n the mind to right even greater wrongs. <\/p>\n<p>So, clang your cup against the bars!<br \/>\nClang and bang and shout and yell<br \/>\nuntil you find there is no lock and key,<br \/>\nor concrete walls and iron bars trapping<br \/>\nyou in.  <\/p>\n<p>Yes, I know, it&#8217;s sad but true.<br \/>\nIt was only ever your excessive<br \/>\npoliteness that held you captive&#8211;<br \/>\nforever and a day.<\/p>\n<p>So, be polite&#8230;<br \/>\nbut not so polite you abdicate your life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Things that took forever and a day to learn: Politeness is a lost social art. People don&#8217;t always understand it and confuse it for weakness. Be polite anyway &#8211;that is strength. But, sometimes excessive politeness is really just seeking permission to succeed, or worse, permission to exist &#8212;that is weakness. Quote by Margaret Graham You [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11101","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/atalantarising.surly.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11101","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/atalantarising.surly.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/atalantarising.surly.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atalantarising.surly.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atalantarising.surly.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11101"}],"version-history":[{"count":82,"href":"https:\/\/atalantarising.surly.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11101\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13003,"href":"https:\/\/atalantarising.surly.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11101\/revisions\/13003"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/atalantarising.surly.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11101"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atalantarising.surly.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11101"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/atalantarising.surly.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11101"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}